Posted on 04.23.2018

A Good Attitude

When you walk into a fast food shop that employs teenagers and twenty-somethings, you can pick the winners from the losers fairly easily.

There’s the sullen individual who slow walks throughout their shift with one eye on the clock and their head in the clouds, and you know right away that working behind a fast food counter or some other menial position will not just be a starter job for them, but a permanent occupation, because neither their attitude nor their ambition would motivate anyone to give them a position of responsibility.

Then there’s the kid who greets you with a smile, takes your order and hustles around the counter taking care of business with a sense of urgency, taking orders, delivering food, answering questions and operating the cash register, making every move count and every word courteous.

So many times, I’ve looked at such a kid and thought, if I was opening a business that needed this kind of help, I would approach him or her and offer them more money than they are making here, because that is the kind of employee I would want to represent my business to the public.

No matter how big the company, no matter how slick the advertising or how impressive the building, it all comes down to people, how your customers are treated and if they feel their patronage is appreciated.

I remember after a long and tiring flight to Alaska, we approached a car rental counter to find it manned by several lackadaisical young ladies who seemed totally out of touch with the business of renting cars and one girl was more concerned with talking to her boyfriend on the phone than she was in taking care of the tired customers who supplied the money to pay her salary.

It was a long and harrowing experience and I made it a priority never to use that rental firm again.

I know about hard work, in the farm fields, in the log woods, in factories and plants, and decided early on, before I took on the responsibility of marriage and children, that there was something better out there for me.

And when I got the chance to stand on a stage and play my music for people, I gave it all I had and learned the hard way that if you’re not up to putting the time and energy into regular rehearsals, learning new material and entertaining the paying customers every time your foot touches the stage, there’s another joint down the street where a bunch of kids who do take it seriously will eventually run you out of town.

I sometimes wonder how some of the young people in the colleges with comfort zones and safe areas will fare when they actually have to meet the grinding competition of the workplace, where there are no crisis counselors and you’re not allowed to take a comfort dog to work with you.

I firmly believe that the American dream is still alive and that those who are willing can achieve it, for those who realize that you can’t just sit under the tree and wait for the fruit to fall into your lap, you’ve got to shake the tree and make it fall.

It’s alive for those who are willing to accept the responsibility to get the job done, no matter how early you have to get there or how late you have to stay.

The highest rewards always go to those who can be handed the toughest assignments because the powers that be known that it will be accomplished, efficiently and with excellence.

It all comes down to attitude, the half full or half empty glass, the tenacity to be able to put adversity behind you and the concentration to keep your eye on the destination until you get there, no matter the hills and valleys or the rocks in the road.

I didn’t come up this phrase, but I have tried to live by it for decades.

“I’m going to get what I want out of life, even if I have to work twice as hard as anybody else has ever worked.”

A good attitude, the starting place on the path to seeing dreams come true.

Try it, it works.

What do you think?

Pray for our troops, our police and the peace of Jerusalem.

God Bless America

— Charlie Daniels

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Comments

Bad Attitudes
It is funny that I have seen many people with indifference towards work and responsibility sail on to bright futures while dedicated workers remain just that and little else. I could give a lot of examples, folks who take credit for other people's work or who blame other people for their mistakes, folks who learn which buttons to push to get management to give them what they want. If good attitude were everything, then all the people who run corporations and governments would be the best of the best and they are not. I admire and respect people with good attitudes but they are often not the people I end up working for. Maybe more than good attitude would be a focus on what you are trying to achieve. If you are willing to do whatever it takes to get what you want, maybe that is the key to success.
Posted by dana
A Good Attitude
In some respects I disagree with Dana. Doing whatever it takes is a major factor in success. A good attitude leads people into a position to display the whatever it takes approach. As a 42+ year employee to the firm I worked for I can state, without a doubt, that many factors enter into the success equation. I found that insincere efforts to get ahead are always realized by management, sometimes sooner rather than later. It all comes down to personal responsibility and a desire to get ahead in an honest and loyal fashion. Charlie's observation of willing employees, is as always, right on the money.
Posted by Owen
Whatever floats the boat
Exactly right. Attitude counts for a lot. Some will look at the negative, which is hard to ignore sometimes. However, I had a trip into a fast food place a while back. At night not very busy. I was in and out with a smile in a few. On the way home I thought that was nice and quick. After home and eating it, I decided I was so impacted by the experience I called an 800 number I found. Sure enough, had to tell them I didn't want to complain but praise the excellent service. I was never that impressed, suggesting they pass it on to that store. I said best experience I ever had. And isn't that what it is about, the experience the patron has? I told her that you probably don't hear that much. But when something is that good, maybe say so. No coupons or freebies, just tell them. Good isn't all that common. Customers returning are a good sign something is working besides the door. Keep on Charlie, they aren't through thanking you yet.
Posted by Jeff
Customer service second to none
I as a business owner have to agree with Charlie your customers first impression is your employees and after that sometimes there's not a second chance so make sure that your employees know to make the first one count. And hopefully in the end it will be a prosperous job for us all
Posted by Daniel
Are Some People Happy Being Miserable?
Amen, Amen & Amen Charlie I have been known to frequent establishments that may not have the best food but do have good service and friendly folks that make you feel special. I don't know if it is true fact but I have read many times that it twice as many muscles to frown than smile, which begs the question of why many of these individuals that seem to lazy to work would exercise that many extra muscles to look miserable? nuff said God Bless Plowboy
Posted by Plowboy
Minority or Majority?
While reading this and thinking about the larger group of people in this generation feeling as if they need a safe space or accommodations from people around them to function, I wonder if this group is still a small minority or if it has become a much larger group? We all know that it is human nature to have the bad experiences stick more than the good experiences, so who is to say that this experience with the women at the rental place only stuck because of its innate terribleness? Do you believe that this generations supposed lackadaisical and anti responsibility stance will lead to some sort of shrinkage in US output in the future?
Posted by Alex